Who loves the attention of
annoying aunties asking you a hundred million times about when you’re getting
married? Nobody, that’s who. And nobody loves the idea of being terrorized
every time you attend a friend’s wedding, only to realize that you’re the only
one there single. Who likes pizza on a Saturday night with no boyfriend to
share it with? Not us. We’re all about the dating life.
But then again, what’s up with
all the daring apps that are out there? It feels like life is revolving around
Tinder, Blumber, Boomber, and the millions of dating apps out there. We kinda
feel lost in a way, and we’re left in the dark. Going on a Tinder data feels
like we have to “put sex on the table”, otherwise we lose the attention of our
date.
And what’s up with everyone
getting married at 22? It’s like all the Shaadi.com ads got mixed with the
increasing societal pressure to give us this new phenomenon of everyone
pretending to be liberal but getting married off before they’ve even gotten a
stable career. If life’s a contest between dating apps and matrimonial ones,
then who’s really winning?
Here’s a good idea – let’s go
the old fashion way and actually talk to one another. We’re so bogged up with
Instagram and Snapchat, that we get anxiety if we don’t check out phones every
20 minutes. How about really talking to each other and getting to know someone
that you’d like to date. Is that so farfetched?
There are literally apps for
community-marriage, e.g. christianshaadi.com, punjabimatrinomney.com, etc. –
and we’re like WTF. Just talk to someone from your community the next time
you’re meeting them. The old fashion way of floating a “patri” has turned into
a new fashion way of floating a “biodata”. We’re in 2018, and we’re still
unable to live life without a marriage certificate.
Guys, we don’t need to always
be thinking about marriage. The more important topic to focus on is making
money and being financially secure. That security makes us feel more confident
and we can actually have a conversation with someone we like without feeling
shy or doubtful. That natural confidence is also extremely attractive, and we don’t
need Ryan Gosling’s abs to get the date that we need (although it helps
immensely!)
Forget the apps, because they’re loading up our data anyways, and focus
on meeting someone in real life. Go old fashion – the right way – and meet
someone at a party that you really like. Or, if you’re at a bar and you wanna
meet some cute guys, then open up Tinder and restrict the location to the
shortest distance possible. That way you can instantly meet someone nice
without having to leave the bar or club.
What’s really popular these
days is ditching the apps altogether and going for single meets and events.
Although, they sound creepy at first, they’re actually a fun way to make new
connections. Imagine how many couples met by accident and found chemistry when
they first met. Now you can replace that with an accident on speed. Go out
there and don’t be in your comfort zone for too long! Otherwise you might be
receiving Rishtas from distant uncles that you didn’t even know existed.
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