Who wants to settle down with
a boring man? Mr. Perfect is waiting for us out there and we shouldn’t settle
down with any “aira gaira” that we meet, or our dads approve of.
Doctors used to be the main arm candy for all the ladies in the 90s, but now things are changing. A musician can make more money than a general physician, and a surgeon would be spending months in long-hours and patient healthcare checks. So, in 2018, we ladies need to find the perfect man that “WE” want, and not what society dictates is the right choice for. Just don’t date anyone who invests in Bitcoin. You should stay away from those guys.
It all started when farming
wasn’t the mainstream job anymore 30 years ago. We were specializing and doing
what we actually wanted to do. There were lawyers, doctors, architects and
engineers. Our parents grew up in that generation and found someone who was
probably in one of these careers. Very few were entrepreneurs. Now that the
internet has connected all of us, it’s more likely that you recognize a YouTube
celebrity than a famous doctor. Our priorities have shifted, and we don’t just
want the money and the stable life. We also want love, adventure and happiness.
We want to do everything that our parents couldn’t do. More importantly, we
want romance.
It also came down to friends.
Whenever that cool chic from class was dating a rebellious rocker boy from a
grade older, we were jealous. It’s a communal thing and we can’t help it. We
want excitement in our lives and sadly doctors and engineers may not be the
leaders in that department. If you’re dating a man that has excitement in his
life, it rubs off and makes us feel happier and more satisfied. It keeps the
relationship alive, and marriage doesn’t become a responsibility. You want a
guy that makes you wanna go “woohoo!”
It’s also about kids! We want our kids to happy, healthy and bright. Doctors and lawyers may not be in the best of health or look like Hritik Roshan. But now, we can find a guy (our Mr. Perfect) who’s good looking and makes money. The perfect balance! We don’t have to take a few hits in the look department just so that we can fulfil our inner need for financial security.
It’s also got to do with how
our parents raised us and how our teachers were. We’ve grown up in an eco-system
of unhappiness and patriarchy. Our teachers were frustrated, our politicians
were cheaters, and we didn’t trust our local policemen with anything. We were
taught to become more cynical and careful in life. This is why we take a longer
time to figure out who’s a guy whose good for us, and how well can he take care
of himself and others. Back in our parents’ time, having anger issues was
called a personality trait. Nowadays, were more aware of these things and don’t
want to fall prey to any man.
We are also enjoying the
freedom of choice. With so many options to choose from in restaurants, laptops,
phones, movies, etc why shouldn’t we have choices in the man we’re going to be
spending the rest of our lives with? Ladies, it’s time to venture out and find
our Mr. Perfect according to OUR preferences.
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